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01 April, 2008

Shaming myself and those who live with me

How often have I complained about the state of my house on this blog? A dozen times? A hundred is probably more likely. I tend to blame my kids, but really whose fault is that my kids are lazy asses? Totally mine. I did not set chores upon my oldest early enough. I am not strict enough. And, quite honestly, I hate cleaning myself. Well, that's not entirely true. I like it when it's done. I like the results of cleaning.

Anyway, with it being spring break this week I decided that the kids and I were going to do a little (or a lot) of spring cleaning. So on Sunday before work I went through the house taking "before" pictures. Posting them on the blog ensures me that I will make sure you all see the "after". I don't really want to be known as the messiest blogger in the kingdom.

This is the kids room in the basement. I do have pictures of the rest of it (all my crap thrown everywhere) but this is Liam's focus for this week. In this picture he and his friend are on the Wii, totally ignoring the mess surrounding them.

In this room, there are 3 bookcases and the white desk. Yesterday, Liam sorted out the 3 bookcases and went through the rubbermaid containers. He threw away quite a bit and found half a dozen dishes. He'll finish it up tomorrow and then on the weekend William will move around the furniture so they have a bit more Wii-playing space.


This is my closet. It was so bad I could no longer walk in to it and instead of hanging clothes I was just putting them on the dresser. I cleared out the floor space yesterday, and got rid of a laundry basket full of clothes we no longer wear. I then took advantage of William's lack of clothes and gave myself a bit more space by moving some mine over to his side. I managed to throw away a giant black garabage bag of stuff and a large blue bag of recycling.


I still have to do the top shelves.



I told Taylor and Liam awhile ago that I would no longer clean their bathroom and that betwen them they could each clean it once a week. Apparently, they haven't bothered but at least I have proof that they are brushing their teeth.



Taylor cleaned the bathroom Sunday evening and after being sent up a second time to finish it properly by William I would say she did a pretty good job. The one thing she forgot to do is empty the garabage. I'm still waiting.


Liam's room. The floor is cleaned up, but he still has a lot to do.

Taylor's room. You've seen a picture almost exactly like this one before. I'll have to find that link so you can see that it has only gotten worse. She spent almost all day up there but I don't see much of a difference. She knows that her room has to be clean by Thursday otherwise she is missing out on going to a movie with a bunch of friends, including the boy she likes.


I put her laundry here for her to put away. This is probably about 3 piles worth, just gethering there. Waiting.


The closet floor. Sigh. You see where she gets it from, no?


I really have no excuse for why the girls room got so messy. I like to say that it is because I do the majority of my cleaning when Sophie is napping but what about the other hours in the day? This is a really bad example of the room, it has never been this bad before. There are toys everywhere, 2 baskets of laundry, clean laundry all over the bed and a basket of clothes that no longer fit Sophie. This room is all done, Sophie no longer will fall asleep on her own (what the fuck is up with that by the way!?) so when I got home from work on Sunday night I spent 2 hours up there and now it is quite lovely and just needs us to paint and get Sophie into a bed rather than the crib. My girls are growing up.







So there you are. A glimpse into my very messy house. See, I'm not lying in that tagline up at the top of the blog there. On Friday, I am going to a bloggers breakfast and/or lunch with some
of my favourite ladies and then in the evening I will show the "after" pictures. Though I did forget to take pictures of the before in my scrapbooking area. Take my word for it, it was worse than my closet and the girls room. Though not as bad as Taylor's.

18 comments:

la bellina mammina said...

Hi Emma, sorry I haven't been visiting...

My! You're brave to put the photos up! I post a photo once of the boys rooms on the blog and showed them what I had done and 'threatened' to blog about how messy their rooms were, now they pay special attention. Even though we have a live-in housekeeper (it's the norm here), I go through their stuff once a month to clear junk and I make them participate, otherwise, I'll just throw everything away!!

Well done, can't wait to see the 'after' photos! ;-)

Anonymous said...

Wow. You go girlie. I know you can do it. If the kids cooperate!

Anonymous said...

How wonderful of you to post photos. I should do that with my girls room. It looks like Taylor's room. The crawl space; I faced my fear a couple weeks back and went in. I even made it out. I was going to get it cleaned up, then did the sun room instead and now I started this stupid shower room project and will be working quite a bit the next 2 months as well as going on some trips so I am stressed about getting it done and everything else. I am looking forward to blogger breakfast/lunch and seeing your after photos.

mumof4 said...

you'll get there. That is a good idea taking before and after photos. Your little ones' closets are actually v v tidy. And bravo for joining the 'take a snap of your closet' group. I still haven't cleaned mine properly!!

Anonymous said...

OMG! I feel a lot better about our mess now :) And ew at that sink :)

Anonymous said...

You are so brave! I must say our closets look very similar. Just because you didn't give the kids chores early on doesnt mean you can't change the way things are done now. Stay on top of them even after this week cause you shouldn't have to be in charge of keeping up with that many people!

Beckie said...

I just cleaned my bedroom yesterday....I didn't take any pictures.

Julie said...

I cannot wait to see the after pictures!

Unknown said...

you are very brave.

I grew up in a house a bit like this and now my house is very tidy (not clean, mind you, but tidy and uncluttered for the most part). My mother is always amazed at it when she comes and reminds how I was messy as a child.

I am training my son very early and last night i went upstairs and he was downstairs watching a movie and eating a bagel . i told him to come up when he was finished and i heard him get up off his chair, walk to the kitchen, drop his plastic plate int eh sink and put his napkin in the trash and I was so proud I almost cried!!! so silly

Anonymous said...

You want to come do my house next???

Anonymous said...

You know what? While it's brave of you to post pictures like these, I bet all of us could do the same. For you to admit things aren't always perfectly clean around your place, you're giving us all a little freedom from having to keep things perfect, too. Thanks for being brave so all of us can stop feeling guilty!

debi9kids said...

Is it wrong that I am laughing away? I think I only feel right telling you because I am living that same HORROR with my kids and their rooms. UGH!
I am most "impressed: with Taylor's room, which resembles my daigher Gabi's room. LORD! Who would think that girls could make such messes???

Anonymous said...

You are my hero for posting those pictures!!!

Taylor's room resembles my room when I was her age. So gross!!! Then I grew up & married a clean freak. And freak is not an operative word.

Sandy said...

Can't wait for Friday's post, Emma!

Jana said...

I am totally with you on this...I don't know why but I didn't get my son on the cleaning path right away...and neither did my husband's mother... *sigh*

Bren said...

I swear to you my daughter's room looks just like yours. Can't wait to see the after pics.

Joy T. said...

My oldest daughter was like your daughter. Actually she still is except she rents her own apartment now so I can't say a darn thing when I go visit her. Ok I say something anyway but she tells me to be quiet and then we move on. And I am AMAZED at all the clothes in your closet! I swear, you should see my closet. It's damn near empty.

See you bright and early tomorrow!

bichonpawz said...

With all you got going on, I'm not surprised at the "mess"...my teenage daughter's room was just like that. She has her own place now and she won't let me in when it's "really bad" LOL I love your blog and will have to start visiting more often as I am a regular reader of Dawn's & Joy's.