Last week, I posted pictures of the terrible state certain rooms in my house were in. And though I did the work I was supposed to do my children most certainly did not. My plans fell apart. I was going to push them and I didn't. I asked them to clean their rooms and Liam did a fair job, Taylor cleared some of the mess that you could see from the door. Within a day or two though, the floor was back to being covered by clothes and other crap, including the bag of gargage she never bothered to throw out.
The whole purpose of posting the pictures on here was because those rooms were in such a state that I needed to hold myself, and Taylor and Liam, accountable. Well, Taylor and Liam could care less what I post on this blog. I, however, was pretty ashamed. I was supposed to post the results by Friday and really? Taylor and Liam's were still pretty disgraceful. I wish that post was an April's Fool joke but it so was not. I'm not sure if you guys are really gulliable or just didn't read the entire post. But I am glad that so many of you have proof that your house is cleaner than someone elses. I say that about my neighbour. Yes, it is true...there are houses worse than mine!!! But keep in mind that I didn't show you my main floor which is generally okay (and really good today because I spent my entire afternoon deep cleaning my livingroom.) You've seen my kitchen before, once upon a time. Picture my house that way, not the messy befrooms way! Please!
So on with the pictures:
My formerly messy closet floor. There are still 2 containers of scrapbooking paper and stuff I need to go through, but generally it's not too bad. Oh, and I never did get to the top shelves, but at least those containers are out of the way. Now that the floors in the closet are cleared, I am constantly finding the girls playing in there.
Liam's room. He's hiding under the blanket there, didn't want me to take a picture of his room which is back to being a mess.
Taylor's room. Yeah. I think it is worse now. They are off school early on Thursdays so I have said that if there rooms are not clean by Thursday evening then don't even bother asking to get together with friends over the weekend. I am sticking to this. I am not asking for the perfect bedrooms, I just want them to be reasonable.
The girls room. This room was cleaned before I even posted the original pictures and it has stayed that way. I go in everyday and have them both help me pick up whatever toys they were playing with. We have also taken down Sophie's crib and taken the toddler bed out of our room- finally! Sophie is sleeping in the twin bed as Saoirse wants the little one. Not that she sleeps in it of course.
A fairly clean closet. They have too many clothes, I think.
No more crib.
Taylor did clean the bathroom, and they have kept it pretty clean.
They are even wiping up the toothpaste in the sink. Or they aren't brushing their teeth. Probably number two knowing my two.
I really don't know what I can do to have the older two (especially Taylor) keep their rooms clean. I hope the threat of no friends over the weekend works. As for myself, I'm now following a cleaning schedule and so far it is going really well. If I know I have to clean the three bathrooms before I go out with the girs to the park or turn on the computer than I'll get going first thing in the morning. My problem is that I will fart around all day and get nothing done. I'm working on that one.
09 April, 2008
It was NOT an April Fool's Joke
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Good for you! Even if the older 2 didn't get it done, look what you got accomplished! I keep telling myself I will get my spring cleaning under way, then I find something more fun to do. LOL
Hope the threat works with the kids. It doesn't work with mine. I don't think anything does. :(
THAT is why I don't post the before pictures until after I have taken the after pictures....if you know what I mean.
Your closet looks great and that bathroom is looking spic and span! I wish my youngest's room looked that good. She is somewhat of a pack rat so there are stacks of crap everywhere. I can hardly wait to see her house when she gets older.
You have done a great job! And the teenage girl thing....give up hope now! My daughter's was pretty much that way all through her teens. Now that she has her own place...not so much!! Hang in there!
Hi,
there has been improvement!! As for the kids... you cannot "threaten". You have to tell them the "consequence" for not doing as you say, AND THEN STICK TO IT!!! You may have to do this more than once. But then they will begin to get the idea.
If they know it is an empty threat, then of course it does not work!! Good luck. It is difficult to change habits.. both theirs and yours!
Good for you!
The older two have definitely done well on their bathroom.
I'd be too embarassed to post pictures of my house before, maybe once it's all done... There are a couple of old Fun Monday pictures up, but they're all fairly tidy shots (except the bookcase ones - which are even worse now)
I think it looks good, and the Taylor and Liams rooms are pretty normal...and I bet they will have them cleaned up by tonight! :o) Yea for no more crib! Have a relaxing day in your nice, clean house.
I'm going home tonight and kissing my 5 year old who is obsessively neat. The first thing he does when he gets out of bed it make it. Then he straightens up the room before going to the restroom and getting dressed.
Anal just like his mom.
This so reminds me of my granddaughter's room especially when she was a bit younger!
I sympathize with the kids rooms. I think our record for keeping one clean was 2 hours. And - that was amazing.
When I stopped over for my order the one time your house looked great. Although I was definitely distracted by the cuteness that was your daughter!!
It obviously bothers you but I personally think you're too hard on yourself. Not that you asked but I can type this without you telling me to be quiet :o) If you are the only one cleaning a lot of the time then it's pretty darn hard...if not damn near impossible...to keep up with 6 people's mess let alone everything else you do in a day as mom. Hang in there! I think taking those privileges away is the way to go with the older ones. It won't take long and they'll want to hang with their friends.
Maybe you should give them a schedule too. Try to show them that if you just do a little everyday, there won't be that BIG cleanup. It will just stay cleaner.
good job! I think that if you really stick to your word, that maybe the two older ones will start to keep their room clean.
I'm with Frannie - if you stick to your word --- and make sure the olders ones know you mean business -- they'll eventually give in and keep their rooms clean.
It's a constant battle at our house....keep it uncluttered. My kids always pull various things out and 'forget' to put them away when they're finished with them. I just ride them to put 'X' away...and tell them they can't do whatever it is they're planning, until it's done. Like I said -- constant cycle.
Bravo Emma!
good lord your girls have a LOT of clothes!!!
Wow, way to clean! You didn't get it all, but you got a lot:)
I wasn't gullible I knew right away but I've seen pics of the kids rooms before so I knew even before you made it known that it wasn't really a joke. I'm with you though. I haven't a clue how to get them to get and keep their rooms clean. Seriously I'm at the point of keeping the doors closed and giving up. The kids rooms right now are no better and honestly neither is my own room....
Trust me we probably match up on messiness right now if not mine being a bit worse. Of course that is one reason I like you. I feel more like we are alike since we can't seem to ever catch up and some of it is the farting around thing. I just hate to clean certain areas that I know will only be back to the same state in a couple of days.
Looks like you made some improvements though - that's all you can do right? Baby steps are still steps! : )
I thought it looked like Liam in the before picture of his room! (Or at least the back of his head... I study hair, dontcha know?!)
But seriously? Growing up my room was exactly like Taylor's. And my mother didn't do a damn thing to make me improve it. I lived like a total pig and I suppose she either didn't much care, couldn't be bothered, or just gave up what was a very weak attempt in trying to get me to stay clean.
The good news is that she will grow out of it. And while I'm no clean freak, I'm totally tidy. But I will be forever disorganized.
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